Friday, May 7, 2010

Insecurity - Thanks to Technology !

Ever wondered how your best friend broke up few weeks back with her Prince Charming and stated the cause being ignorance on his part? Ever noticed how paranoid you tend to feel when you try reaching that one person and you cannot get through their line? All the negative thoughts immediately begin to fill up your mind. Ever thought how your assignments end up being incomplete because you are busy chatting with your friends about the latest SAIF-INA gossip? Ever pondered how updating your Facebook status and tweeting becomes an urgent need while you are on the move? Ahh! The parents usually blame our generation for our compulsive ways but, in reality, it’s the technological advancement and how easily accessible these means have become to us is what is contributing to such circumstances.

I mean why don’t we look back a few decades? There was no internet facility available at the households. Cellular phones were alien objects. Social networking was something unimaginable for everybody. That was the era of letters. And, guys! If you feel, there was no romance then, you are absolutely mistaken. The hearts were connected and definitely the bonds were stronger than they are today. The reason the couples panic today is mostly because he or she didn’t reply to my SMS. He or she didn’t pick up my call. There’s a lack of understanding and this is all thanks to the technological progress. With every SMS going unanswered, with every call going unattended, the sense of betrayal deepens. People have stopped connecting via hearts. It’s all so technical. So, scientific development ought to be blamed for the rapid rise in the number of break ups.
Now, comes the issue of increasing over protectiveness. Didn’t trains run late a few decades back? Was there never any sort of water logging during the monsoons? Was there never any urgent work in the offices which demanded more number of hours from the employees? People would never go crazy because of these reasons back then. But, today, the scenario is completely different. Almost every teenager has a cell phone and they are shot with numerous questions as soon as they reach home late. This is because the parents cannot imagine that the batteries can ever get exhausted and they tend to think all the negative consequences for the child reaching home late. Was there never a day during the eighties and the nineties when the child reached home late? The parents would never shoot questions like bullets at them regarding their whereabouts but, today this does happen and again technology is to be blamed for this.

The last and the worst consequence is the Space. Today, every individual feels the need for space and space for them means an escape to the virtual world. A child returns from school and instead of talking to his parents, he would rather sit in front of the PC chatting with strangers, who indeed appear to be friendly, but who knows the ultimate motive? A working woman comes home after a hard day at office and instead of spending some quiet hours with her better half, wishes to gets her own space and to think of a new Facebook status. If technology creates space for all of us this way, then that day is not too far when there will be nothing at all but space amidst the individuals staying under the same roof. More than connecting people, technology is distancing them with the real world and in a way, giving rise to insecurities where the level of understanding is evaporating and soon might even vanish without leaving a trace.

Personally, being a not very serious victim of this socio-technological hazard, I feel the sooner the realization dawns on us, the better it is because this is neither a fatal disease nor is it beyond repair. A strict check on ourselves and this addiction is very much curable. So, live your life the healthy way... Don't let Technology Control You...rather Learn to Control TECHNOLOGY !


  1. soo true mahn....!!
    spclly da part wen or partner dosen pik da line n negative thoughts strt filln in...:P


  2. Hey very intellectual n amazin write up
    every situation is sooooo true.........
    indeed inspiring....

    way to go grl
    ur awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. Loved the line "...More than connecting people, technology is distancing them..". It is a very unique idea and a different way of thinking bout it...a different angle altogether! great stuff aru. keep it up.

    P.S. get er pore s ta erase kor..

  4. @ reuben... ahh! too many real life experiences have inspired this post!

    @ ginelle... Thank you Thank yOU! :) great that you liked it...

    @ Rimi Di...
    I love that entire line... and yes..that 's' is a mistake...saw it just now... Am just too careless! :(

  5. grishma ahluwaliaMay 7, 2010 at 3:27 AM

    really true...

  6. Andrea FernandesMay 7, 2010 at 5:29 AM

    hey its nyc n true really very true n ya i like the letter part.... :)

  7. wow.... very true!!! :D
    that tweetinf=g thing reminds me of shashi tharoors tweets which led him into deep shit ...
    ... but veryu good one aru... but u need technology or else no wud have read ur blog too

    - praveen

  8. @ Andrea... I would have never believed it even some months back... I was one of those obsessive Orkut users... but, thanks to the hacker..who hacked my profile..the realization came thenafter and's true!

    @ Praveen...
    Thank you Thank you... ya we do need technology and that's the only reason why I wrote at the end..
    'Don't let Technology Control You...rather Learn to Control TECHNOLOGY !'

  9. The lines "Don't let Technology Control You...rather Learn to Control TECHNOLOGY !" sums it all....terrific piece of work :)

  10. very much correct..hit the right spot

  11. great!!!!!.......

  12. @ Rafaa... That line marks the ultimate level of realization. Once you realise the importance of controlling technology, the addiction start fading... Am so glad it hit me just at the right moment...! :P :)

    @ Don n Indranil...thank You! :)

  13. yeah .. but then technology controls us most of the times.... v dont have self control...
    do v?? :D



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